"BEST OF" 2015

GoodReads Choice Awards, Top 5 Science and Technology Books

Buzzfeed's 17 Things that Changes Our Sex Lives in 2015

Book Riot's Best of April 2015 and Best of 2015 So Far and Best of 2015.

Autostraddle's Top 10 Queer and Feminist Books

“This is the best book I have ever read about sexual desire and why some couples just stop having sex, and what they can do about it. ... It is a must read!” —John Gottman, Ph.D., author of The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work

“Emily Nagoski has written one of the most important books about sex any woman (or anybody else) could ever pick up, full of insights that are both fascinating and deeply useful. ... I guarantee Come As You Are will open minds and change lives.” — Carol Queen, Ph.D., Founding director, Center for Sex & Culture

about emily

Emily Nagoski is the New York Times bestselling author of Come As You Are: the surprising new science that will transform your sex life. She has a PhD in Health Behavior with a doctoral concentration in human sexuality from Indiana University (IU), and a master’s degree (also from IU) in Counseling, with a clinical internship at the Kinsey Institute Sexual Health Clinic. She has taught graduate and undergraduate classes in human sexuality, relationships and communication, stress management, and sex education. For eight years, she was the inaugural Director of Wellness Education at Smith College, before transitioning to fulltime sex nerd, traveling the country, teaching college students, training professionals, and learning every day.

Emily's mission in life is to teach women to live with confidence and joy inside their bodies.

Emily is booked through 2016, but is scheduling events for 2017. You can invite her to speak, read more about the programs she offers (for training for professionals - therapists, medical providers, educators, etc - see pro trainings), and see/hear Emily in action.


Full bio here.

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what people say about emily

It was GREAT !!

Emily is a dynamo. So engaging and an expert in the content.

Emily is a rock star.

Emily Nagoski was so fun!! Her book and her teachings are SOOO important! Hearing her speak really solidified much of what I read in her book.

Outstanding lecture. One of the best lectures I’ve ever been to at a conference.

On no sleep and full of cortisol because of personal life stuff, I found myself 110% engaged, supported and informed. Emily is such a gift to our world.

"Emily Nagoski was the best!!!"

"Emily was fabulous and made a subject that we don’t spend much time talking about very clear. The scientific background and research connections were fascinating."

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