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TEDxUniversityofNevada January 23, 216

CHICAGO IDEAS WEEK October 17, 2015


Simon & Schuster’s “Tips for Life and Love” channel has created some videos with fast, handy summaries of some of the big ideas on the blog and in the book. Here’s the first one, one arousal nonconcordance:

And another, on the dual control model:


Here’s Portland OR’s AM Northwest – this was so fun.

This is Huffpost Live with the brilliant Caroline Modarressy-Tehrani.

This is from Australia’s Studio 10 – an morning show, which means this is me trying VERY HARD to keep it all PG!

Alliance Francaise “Project Passion” live talk

When It Comes to Sex, Are You a Switch or a Knob?
When It Comes to Sex, Do You Simmer or Soar?
More Women Harness Power of Fantasy
Hate Your Body? 4 Ways to Get Your Sex Life Back
How Many Times a Day Do You Think about Sex?
Can Straight Couples Learn from Same Sex Relationships?
Why You Should Talk about Sex Before Marriage
Are you “Normal” in the Bedroom?

Does your number matter?
My boyfriend is obsessed with my orgasm. Help!
I think I might be a lesbian
How do I ask my boyfriend to make me ejaculate?

Men’s Health
12 Ways to Have the Wild Sex She Craves
Gentlemen, Hold Your Fire
Seduce Her Senses
5 Sex Positions for the Lazy Man (MH Singapore)
Let Her Set the Pace Men’s Health, June 2006, p. 66
Where to Begin? Men’s Health March 2006, p. 126

Women’s Health
Boring Sex Be Gone!

Fox News
Fox on Sex: Is She Faking It?
Know Your Female Sexual Geography

Washington City Paper
Is Duck Rape “Rape Rape”